Have a Bikini Bod
Unfortunately, the ideal of having a slim, fit body is one which even the most confident of women tend to obsess about. How could we not care about these messages, however unrealistic, when we're told time and time again to reflect a very narrow ideal of female beauty.
As women, our value is so much more than just our physical appearance. It says nothing about what a good friend, sister, mother, colleague we are, or all the attributes which make up our whole. Accepting ourselves, flaws and all, will lead to more happiness than any number on a scale ever will.